Let’s pretend I have $10 to give you.
Scenario A: I give you $5 and then give you an additional $5
Scenario B: I give you $15 and then take back $5
The end result is the same.
They feel way different.
In scenario A you might feel like I’m a generous person, while in scenario B you might feel like I’m greedy.
And in both, you’re still $10 richer than before.
It’s an objective reality + a subjective experience.
What happened vs what I was expecting to happen.
How I understand the world to operate influences how I actually experience it.
It creates feelings in us that change and develops the reality around us.
It’s why people invest in marketing.